This community somehow manages to be the most and least toxic community ever at the same time

I've spent a lot of time in various different communities and this one is by far the strangest I've been part of.

There's like... Hatred and prejudice toward certain playstyles, while at the same time the people who hate them are incredibly hypocritical as they will readily do said things when presented the opportunity (for example, everyone acts like mixpacking is just as bad as devil worship while I've NEVER had someone I've played with (on official servers, btw) refuse when I was like "oh you're switching? u can still chill dw dw")
As someone who struggles with social interactions frequently, it's. Very confusing to say the least. I've faced a crazy amount of hate for just telling stories of my experiences and I just so happened to be grouping with a carno as a teno. Genuine questions here: A, why do people care so much? it's not hurting anyone. B, what's with all of the people saying 'erm haha you mix bc u couldn't survive on ur own' (that's. not it. i mix when the people i'm playing with are playing different dinos. i literally do not care what dino the person's playing on if i'm playing with them). C, why do people lose their MARBLES about someone mixpacking while being totally chill & just vibing while there are cannibals and mixpackers causing a lot more fuss?

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I should note: This is NOT a post to clown on mixpackers in the comments. I don't want no heated disrespect being thrown, the post will be deleted if that ends up happening. Please, keep your pants on and be respectful. It's not hard, folks. Rule 1.