Forget sl*t shaming, let’s talk about chaste shaming!

Friend introduced me to two friends of hers this weekend gone, both very self-admittedly promiscuous, bordering on nympho. One told me she thinks about sex most of the day, and she can’t do anything else until she gets fucked. Immediately these women (that I do not know) started interrogating my sexual habits after they’d vocalised theirs.

I told them that I don’t do hookups anymore after I tried it once and that I only sleep with someone if I’m in a committed relationship with them, and they were both shocked by this. They questioned why and insisted that I needed to sleep around more. Then they both concluded that I was asexual. I told them that I wasn’t, that I feel sexual desire and have a healthy libido when I’m very attracted to and comfortable with the person I’m dating. But they wouldn’t accept that. They told me that they were going to bring me on a night out and pimp me out and teach me how to fuck and be a hoe. I was like, no, I think I’ll pass, but they kept making jokes and making insinuations.

For the whole afternoon they were on my case about it. Any attractive guy that came into the venue, they were like, what about him? Would you fuck him? Should we get his number for you? It started to piss me off and lowkey upset me. I hate that they treated me like some frigid little girl who can’t get laid and needs some extra help to pull a man when actually, I just don’t like to hoe around, (but I make no judgements about women who do!)