Thinking about converting.

Recently I randomly decided to start reading about being Muslim and what I've read so far it seems like it's based around being kind to others and working to make the world better. I like that; but I'm a trans woman I've been told to not wear female garb and that I should try and stop being trans. So I'm hesitant since the religion doesn't seem the most welcoming. I'm also wondering if anyone could point me somewhere that lists all the rules muslim women have to live by.