Non-judgmental dentist

My mom passed away a year and a half ago, I was caring for her when she was sick, and my young child, and my daughter…I’ve neglected myself, had a filling fall out months ago, am have a tooth ache and haven’t been to a dentist for almost five years. I’m embarrassed to go to my old dentist. Can someone recommend a dentist who won’t be too judgmental because fear of going is now keeping me from scheduling.