Why are you like this?

Why is treating a woman right considered "too much" by some men?

I’ve been thinking about how often some men seem unwilling to go the extra mile for the women they’re talking to, even when those women are clearly putting in effort to make them happy. It's frustrating.

For instance, you could be in a talking stage with someone, and instead of planning a proper date or even making an effort to spend quality time together, they hit you with, "Niko area yenu, si utokee". Like... seriously? Is that what passes for romance nowadays?

And when you call them out, saying you're not about the bare minimum, suddenly you're the problem. Now you have "issues," or you're labeled "too demanding." But I’m genuinely curious: how does this thought process work?

Do some men really expect to meet a woman today, and within a week, they’re asking her to come over to their place (with the classic "nothing sexual will happen" line), and she's just supposed to agree? Is the goal to find women who settle for the absolute bare minimum?

Woe unto the lover girls pouring their hearts into men who never reciprocate, because heeh, it’s not easy out here.