I can’t get over a friend

these are my last interaction with my ex bff. I casually brought it up when the topic came up naturally in conversation over text here, I didn’t think it would be a big enough of a deal to bring up IRL. However he immediately got super angry and defensive and was twisting my words so I gave him a couple days to cool off then texted again and honestly at this point I was pissed off, we normally text/talk daily. It’s been a couple months now and I’ve been reflecting on our friendship a lot and he made a lot of little comments very often. for some context, we are seniors in high school and he’s a gay gym rat on a strict diet who complains about how (in his eyes) every other gay guy in our area is a “huge red flag,” aka they vape, smoke, or have dated multiple people before, which he isn’t okay with. For context, I’m a short, plus size girl with dyed hair and he often made comments about my diet in a lighthearted way that still upset me but sounded like jokes, so I didn’t think he’d actually get so mad about it. He wasnt a huge fan of my other friends since most of them vape while I dont, but he was always kind to them. He acts and talks like he’s better than people who vape, drink, sleep around, or anything like that. So much has happened in my life since we stopped being friends, and I get so sad thinking about how I can’t tell him any of this anymore. I haven’t blocked him because part of me is hoping he’d apologize, and if he did I’d give him another chance but I’d call it out if he made any other weird comments. I unfollowed him and removed him as a follower on November 5th when I realized he was ignoring me in school and on the bus and probably wasn’t planning on talking to me anytime soon, and he still views all my public stories. Advice, support, or even just people who can relate in the comments or read this are all very appreciated