I need a linux distro recommendation with the following specific requirements. Can someone help me? I want to completely shift from Windows 11 to Linux

I am just fed up of Windows being just bag of bloatware and so unnecessary heavy along with privacy concerns. Also windows send a new windows update everytime i blink and i dont even know what the update contain. I want control in my hand. My needs are-

  1. Decent UI, I dont want barebone ui like arch(non existent) or anti X but also not something like so heavy that it essentially becomes heavy like windows. I liked ui of kubuntu, fedora, mint, zorin etc

  2. I need a feature which essentially acts like a incognito tab. Like i can have a environment with my browswer and apps etc with my gmail and etc logged in. But I also want to quickly switch into a new environment which is totally isolated from my main. Consider it like a virtual machine which is totally isolated but i dont want a actual VM. I just want to click a button and switch environments/workspace (each isolated from one another)

  3. I want do gaming(so good gaming compatibility must) along with some windows app running once in a while. I am a software engineer so i want to work on coding. And also meanwhile learn linux on the go

  4. As lightweight as possible without compromising much on ui😅

Spec- Laptop i7 7700HQ 4 core, 8 thread 16GB ram, Nvidia 1050ti

I have always used windows and i dont have idea of linux, i want to shift toward linux fully so i need a little helping hand. Also I want simple if possible like having only one package manager instead of multiple, its not necessary but good to have. Thank you in advance