“I only feel sorry for her dad”

I’ve been seeing people say that they only feel bad for Khalie’s dad and I’m beyond confused by that. As the adult he was ultimately responsible for that house and everyone in it. He decided to allow his children to live in squalor while not even making an effort to clean up after himself. We saw that there was no food in the fridge yet the ground was littered with beer cans. In the entire time Khalie has been posting he did not show even the tiniest bit of interest in making HIS HOME livable and safe for the kids. While there are things Khalie should take accountability for, her living situation is not one of them. I think the level of neglect she’s experienced is criminal. She ended up with an abusive creep because she was conditioned to believe that she was worthless and didn’t deserve safety or comfort. I understand why people who are new to the situation would say things like “only donate to her dad’s GFM” but here’s my two cents: It would be unwise to give a large chunk of money to someone who not only made decisions that led to this tragedy happening, but doesn’t even seem aware of his culpability.