Did we really fall out of love?

My boyfriend and I broke up because of a petty argument but led us to believe na wala na nga ang love.

We’ve been together for 4 years na and lately palagi nalang kami nag-aaway. Palagi din kami nagb-break but would come back to each other again after 3 days or a week.

This time, we wanted to end that cycle and end the relationship na talaga. Kahit sobrang sakit. Sobrang sanay ako sa kanya. I don’t want to end our relationship. Pero kasi paulit-ulit nalang kami.

He also admitted na he fell out of love na nga siguro kasi mabilis na siyang mairita/magalit sa akin at hindi na siya nag-la lambing. Nasanay na lang daw talaga kami sa isa’t-isa.

Did we really fall out of love? Or did he really fall out of love? To people na nasa long-term relationships, did you see changes in your relationship after hitting the 3rd year or 1st year mark?

I’m asking this kasi kahit ako sa sarili ko hindi din ako sure if mahal ko pa ba talaga or nasanay lang ako sa kanya? Now that I am on withdrawal stage, china-chat ko old HS FB acc niya at doon nag a-update para hindi ma disrupt ang daily routine ko na palagig nag a-update. No reply tho kasi hindi naman na ma open yun na account hahaha. I’m confused as hell. Ayokong mawala siya. Life’s different without him, may void talaga.