White plains late 20s will I regret it?

I’m from the rural northeast and moved home after grad school to help my parents. Living there was isolating socially and I was commuting into Manhattan.

I moved to queens and honestly hate it. I love the social aspect of nyc, but I’m paying so much for a run down apartment. I tore my achilles and taking the subway with a boot to go to physical therapy the past few months has been my last straw. I can’t believe how badly I want to drive to a grocery store.

I wish I could live in a city like Denver, but I can’t leave my parents. I’m thinking of moving to White Plains so I can get home fast, commute in for work/social life and have more of the suburban lifestyle I miss. I’m holding back bc I’m nervous I’ll feel as trapped socially as I did back home. Can anyone give me their opinion on moving to white plains as a 27F?