What was it like being a veteran student

I really want to go and use my gi bill to go to college when I get out. My family warns me because I’m looking to become a traditional student they want me to look into online classes or commuting. I’m gonna be 22 when I get out and just would like make up for lost time. Was it worried trying to get involved as a vet and did the students and teachers treat you differently

My dream is to get into the University of Notre Dame, but does anyone recommend any other military friendly colleges