Does anyone else think this fandom is sexist?

Ik this is a crazy thing to ask the said fandom but let's be real for a sec

I think the female characters are treated so much worse than the male characters by the fandom

And something that makes this even worse is that it comes from other women

Let's talk about the villains specifically how female villains are treated compared to male villains

Male villains are always called "broken" or misunderstood" and female villains are called "pure evil" or a "bitch"

Klaus, he's done HORRIBLE things to people, he daggers his siblings, kills everyone Rebekah falls in love with, betrays people including his own family, killed aunt Jenna, and so much more but it's all excused by fans because he was abused by his father ONE THOUSAND YEARS AGO

Kai, admits to being born a psychopath, tortured Bonnie, kills his pregnant sister, killed his little siblings in horrible and realistic ways and so much more and people excuse it because he was mistreated by his dad

But

Katherine, a young girl who got banished by her father because she got pregnant out of wedlock and got sent to England where she met 500 year old vampires who wanted to sacrifice her, kills herself and turns herself into a vampire, who then finds her entire family slaughtered by Klaus, and then is on the run from him for 500 years becomes a villain and does awful things like kill people, manipulate people, killed Jeremy who was a teenager, and so much more and she's labeled as "pure evil" or just a "bitch" or a "slvt" who deserved what happened to her (I've actually heard people say that)

Or

Sybil, a young girl with psychic abilities who gets sent on an island to die by her villaged including her father, then unwillingly becomes a cannibal by someone who she trusted, then kills herself out of guilt, then gets her soul sold by her sister to the devil, and then she kills and eats people to not go to hell for 3000 years, then fans call her "pure evil" "a bitch" or a "slvt" who doesn't serve any empathy (and mostly because she "stood in the way of delena" ... Elena was in a coma what in the snow white was gonna happen for them? Sybil didn't even want Damon she just wanted someone to care about her) at least she can say THE DEVIL MADE HER SO IT

Or even

Davina, who isn't even a villain, she just doesn't want her or her power to be used by Klaus, also she's rightfully vengeful for her friend/crush Tim who she knew for years, "oh but she broke the Klaus's sireline and had people coming after him🥺" she's the reason why the characters of tvd didn't die when Klaus did and all of those people coming after him were enemies Klaus made after doing horrible things to all of them

This is a show about psychopaths and murderers, it's fine to still love your favs even if they're bad people but don't simply excuse them because they're a man you find attractive... And If u do at least don't be talking sht about female villains simply because they're a female...

That's just my thoughts I'm fully prepared for people to start trying to deny it or say I'm seeing something that isn't there