Can a passport bro change?

F (24 from Asia), Bf is American. We’ve been dating for almost a year now.

Prior to being official, a couple of dump accounts on Instagram warned me about him being a liar, manipulator. One account told me they were dating and she found out that he was still on different dating apps (When I asked him about it he said he made it clear to the girl that he wasn’t looking for anything serious). End of story, I didn’t listen bec I feel like I know him better.

He cheated 6 months ago because we got into an argument. He went to a City in the Philippines and hookup with a girl from them. I found out about it cause the girl messaged me. He said he was sorry, he just wanted ti dodge the feeling or being miserable. — I forgave him and he gave me his Instagram account. From there, I found out that he has been traveling across Europe, Asia and was hooking up with girls through different dating Apps, he was honest about it and had told me he hooked up In Colombia, Spain, Thailand etc. (Is he a passport bro?)

To be fair, He did a lot of great things for me, he takes care of me. He was always there for me, introduced me to his family and friends (and some of them even sent me gifts last Christmas) Whenever we travel around Asia, he plans and pays for everything. He’s a good person and really takes care of me. I didn’t feel used throughout the course of our relationship. The same way, I have took care of him and have put so much effort in our relationship and he even said nobody has ever took care of him and made him feel special like I do.

After our recent trip around Asia for 2 months, I asked him if he has plans on closing the distance and has told me the doesn’t have any plans at the moment because he can’t leave his job. End of story, I broke up with his because there was miscommunication and I felt like he was uncertain about closing the distance.

24 hrs after the breakup, I saw he posted on reddit/passportbros asking for suggestions on which Latin American country has the best girls? When he knew that I saw the post, he was apologizing and have said he only did that because I left and abandoned him.

I question is, can a passport bro really change? Cause I am not sure if I’m being manipulated right now. I just feel sick to my stomach and disgusted because I felt like I have been part of the experience and I feel dirty about it.

He told me he wouldn’t fly all the way to America to the Philippines twice in just 9 months and spend thousands of dollars to travel with me around Asia if it wasn’t serious. But for me, I feel like if I continue the relationship, Im just going to be anxious every time he travels, I don’t feel secured thinking that he’s going to do it again.