Only option is to leave?

This will most likely turn into a rant about how Vancouver is unfriendly.

I am a 40-year-old female looking to build a social circle and perhaps date someone. I have been here for over three years, but the situation doesn't seem to improve. Why is it so hard here? I have tried all the Reddit advice—go to meetups, join Salsa dancing classes, learn Tennis, try dating apps—but the results are the same.

The only thing that seemed okay was my job, but that has changed now. With mounting job frustration and social isolation, I wonder if I am wasting the last few 'young' years of my life both in terms of career and companionship here?

My fate can't be that unique (read: fucked) that I am the only one facing this kind of situation at this stage of life? And my only option is to go through the trouble of moving to another place?

Throwaway account to protect my profile.