Let Me Know When Your Dad Dies

My Dad passed last Friday. He had been actively dying for a week and we knew the end was near. My narc had a 3 day, out-of-state recreational trip planned with his buddies. He left early Friday morning. He never offered to cancel his plans, asked me to text him when Dad passed, and he'd TRY to get home BUT he didn't think there was a local airport and since he rode with a friend, he wouldn't have a vehicle. Turns out that he told a friend 2 hours before I sent the sad text, "I have a feeling that something bad is going to happen today." He came home on Sunday.

Just needed to vent to people who understand and experience their narc's lack of empathy.