Why are women their own enemies?

TRIGGER WARNING: This post will contain rape scenarios and violence . I was recently talking to a friend of mine now enemy .We were casually chatting about my ex now for context i broke up with my ex because he cheated on me with a close friend of mine (X) .She was telling me how my ex went to the states so i asked her if he was still with that girl let’s call her X who he cheated on me with . This girl acted all excited and was like cjakuambia imagine they gang raped her . So long story short my ex got bored with this girl and instead of breaking up with her he decided to get this shawry drunk then him and his group of his friends took advantage of her while she was tipsy .

He then sent her home the next day and broke up with X . And my new enemy straight ass said good for her X deserves that for stealing my ex . I was disgusted fr like of course i feel bad he cheated but i still wouldn’t wish gang rape on my worst enemy. As someone who has been SAd before hearing what happened to X literally made me cry the way my new enemy was describing those details made me disgusted and hurt .

The way she said she deserved it just made me hate her with so much passion . I hate women who bring other women down . When i got SAd i went to the hospital and this female nurse told me maybe it was what i was wearing i was in a trouser and a Tshirt and that traumatized me fr .

Unfortunately it is the women who will retraumatize the victims by somehow framing rape as the victims fault if its not what did you wear , it is ulijitakia kwanza I remember when femicide was rampant people would say ohh ni wasichana hupenda pesa like who doesn’t love money nkt . Most of us are going out of our way to find money.So should you be killed for loving money nkt .