I don’t want to be a cumdump

Hi all. Thanks for taking the time to read this. Today my Dom referred to me as a cumdump. He’s used this word in the past but I never told him I didn’t like it. Today I finally told him but I don’t want him to think i’m shying away from degradation. I told him i’d prefer cumwhore but I don’t want him to feel as if I don’t respect his need to refer to me as a cumdump. It struck a nerve for me because to me it sounds like he sees me as disposable trash. I’m sure that’s not how he feels but I don’t like it. I tried searching through the sub to see if anyone else doesn’t like the term but overwhelmingly a lot of you love it.

I guess I need help reframing it in my mind. Please help me with that.