Husband is mad at me because of how I behaved when I was in distress.

My husband was on the phone with his friend and I was about to bathe my pet of 7 years. I went in his room while he was on the phone to ask if he could help me get a few things because my hands were tied. He got up and started asking me questions about what I needed and I answered him and telling him what I needed and he kept bringing me the wrong stuff.

I wasn’t mad at it, just more annoyed. But anyways he goes back in the room while I clean my pets and as I am cleaning them, I notice something that resembled ticks in their hair. I freaked out because I was scared. I immediately get up and go to his rooom and he had his headphones on. I say “hey I need you to get off the phone and come in here!” I say in clear distress. He then sits up and says “wow that was a strange request” he comes into the bathroom and I say “hey is it ok if I use your clippers beca””” Him: “noooo no! You’re not using my clippers!!”

I said to him why are you saying it like that I was just asking. So I close the door and continue to tend to my pet trying to use scissors to cut their hair and to try to be able to see their skin.

Eventually I get back up to try to explain to him that I was in distress and upset and that the way he reacted to me didn’t help. We get into an argument because he says he didn’t like my attitude when I came in the room. basically he was upset that I was upset.