Why do you monger?

Are you able to still have sex without using sex workers?

If I had a choice, I’d want a girlfriend. I’m not ugly, I’m not tall, but I’ve been told I’m cute and look younger than my age. Back in college, I had a girlfriend and a few sexual partners (three in total). After college, while working, I stopped having relationships.

I’ve tried dating apps—downloaded so many—but with little success. I don’t get matches, and even with premium services, the women who swipe on me are typically not my type. This cycle often leads me back to visiting sex workers. Afterward, I’ll try the apps again, but nothing changes.

There was a year I was having lots of fun, going to different cities and countries and visiting legal workers, felt like it made me confident and happy and satisfied. A lot of them are pretty creative and it’s like porn star level. My body count with workers is close to 100.

I’ve also heard of the ‘passport bros’—people going to other countries where dating seems easier because women are said to be more open, kind, or approachable.

Has anyone try taking a break and tried dating but failed so they went right back? (I’m also Asian so maybe getting girls attracted is on hard mode).