AITA for cutting my sister off because she is mean to all of us?

My sister (35) is living with her husband and son away from us. Like, 35 minutes away. During the past 2 years we have messaged each other 2-3 times, during birthdays. On my birthday, she tried to video call me twice but I acted as if I wasn't available. I really didn't want to speak to her. She is extremely mean to our mom. She speaks to her like she is scum. She always complains and takes everything we do for her for granted. I've never heard the words "thank you" from her. Once, she started yelling at me because I took ONE step inside her house with my shoes on simply because I was holding a massive cake and couldn't remove my shoes. Or she yelled at me for passing by the clothes drying rack. She said that I almost touched the clean clothes and got them dirty. She is unbearable and I just don't want to be near her.