Sean and Joanne not telling their kids about being married for TWO YEARS

This is going to be a major trauma for all of the kids involved. I feel especially bad for the daughter because she seems like such a daddy’s girl. It’s an enormous breech of trust to not disclose that to their children and I can’t imagine their relationship will ever be the same as it was. For example when I was 8 or 9 my mother eloped and even though I knew about it, I wasn’t there and that was so painful. I remember just feeling like I wasn’t important or not a part of her family anymore. I haven’t seen this discussed much here so I’m curious what you guys think, especially after seeing their reactions. It was so uncomfortable to me that they were just saying “You’re supposed to say congratulations! Aren’t you happy for us?” like be for real please.