Why don’t people in their 20s want kids anymore

I know I know , you’re going to say they’re expensive, we can’t afford it, yadda yadda. I get it. But how can the majority of the dating pool not want to create a family😭 it makes me so sad that i I can’t find a man who isn’t a bum who wants to be married and create a family. Everyone wants something casual , and do want to invest anything real. It makes me want to scream and cry at the same time . I’m 29 I’m a woman, and all I’ve ever wanted was a family .

I have a good career, and I don’t want to build by myself. This hurts me so much because every relationship I get into , they don’t want kids. It’s making me feel like I have to choose between being in a relationship and not being alone. Or never having children.

Don’t get me wrong I have nexplanon in my arm . Because I don’t want a random surprise baby. But I want to find someone to build with . It just hurts that no one is into that anymore . I guess everyone is in survival mode.

TLDR: my dream is to have at least two babies and no one my age except bums ( who don’t seem like they would even be around long term) are even thinking about it . Whyyyyyyy