Is gold masculine?

So I'm MTF. Got my ears pierced a while back and finally got to take out the healing studs and choose jewelry myself. Got a pair of golden hoops.. because I'm basic. (Not really gold of course)

Now my friends are giving me crap for it. They make fun of me for "volentary making my body more masc". Got some joking missgendering and employing and playing to me being masculine. Because apparently gold is a masculine color whilst silver is feminine.

So.. is it time to get silver earrings instead..?