Self care doesn’t result in self love

I’ve recently realized that all acts of self care dont actually make me like myself and be confident.

I do all sorts of thing I love, I play an intrument, I have people around me I gladly spend time with, I take care of myself physically, lot of sports and nature, cooking tasty and nutricious meals, grooming, I even study what I’m passionate about. The more the better right ?

Well, in my case, I feel like all they do is occupy my mind so I can’t think of being the worthless person I am. An Escapism of some kind. And whenever I get time to self-reflect or just be with my thoughts, I dont feel better about myself.

I dont know what to do, I know this isn’t normal but everytime I think about just faking confidence I realize im just being delulu.

If this isn’t the way, what could be ?

Edit: Big thank you for all your responses, going through them prooved to make me feel a tiny bit better :) and that counts, hopefully it will keep a positive trend for the long term with, as many of you mentioned, low of work needed to be put in to truly like oneself.