Any other minorities sometimes feel “out of place” in San Diego?

Born and raised here.

I know this post is gonna stir up some opinions.

I wouldn’t call it racism like people experience in other parts of the country, but I sometimes don’t feel all that welcome by white people in San Diego. Most, but not all, of my friends growing up have been minorities, and I always seemed to have an easier time making friends with Hispanics, Asians, etc. A lot of white people (again, not all or even most) here are outwardly friendly, but it sometimes comes off like surface-level friendliness. For being so statistically diverse, San Diego doesn’t seem to have as much mingling of different ethnicities like you see in other cities like LA, DC, NYC, etc. For example, I don’t see mixed-ethnicity friend groups here as often as I do in those cities, and I don’t mean a group having only one member who is a minority. If it matters, I’m not a surfer, an IPA drinker, or “bro” or whatever other stereotype of white guys there is here.

Edit: I’m glad I brought this question up because I knew it would lead to a lively discussion. It’s refreshing to read a lot of different perspectives.