Lisa Barlow apologists

Can someone explain the Lisa love to me? Aside from her materialistic nature, she is so incredibly manipulative that I would find it so exhausting being her friend.

Ex: Bronwyn calling her before their trip asking if her husband would be okay with Justin and Whitney sounds like a normal, thoughtful/respectful question. Why was she so bothered by it? If she didn’t ask about their comfortability, then she would annihilate her for not even taking their feelings into consideration.

To me, she just sounds like a very exhausting friend to have if you’re not kissing her butt 24/7. I have yet to see her selflessly defend or protect any of her other girlfriends if it has no impact or gain for her own agenda.