Tired of how society treats fat people

I used to be super fit. I worked out a lot and spent most of my time being obsessed with my appearance. I was partying all the time and not actually healthy and kind of a mess. Life got in the way and other things took over like building my career, taking care of sick and special needs children in my family, taking care of other sick family members, supporting so many financially. I stopped working out because there was no time. I gained 70 lbs.

Once I become fat the way people treat me is different. Even when I was a shittier person when I was fit. The other things that make me a good person don’t seem to matter. Once you’re fat no one pays attention to you and society hates you. It’s a bummer.