Switching ob?

So this is my first pregnancy (yay!) and the gyno I see for paps has a male dr on staff which hasn’t been an issue cause I can just not schedule my appts with him but when I called to schedule my first appt they told me I have to be ok with seeing all of their drs and that they only deliver in a hospital that’s 30 mins away from me on a good day. I was sexually assaulted and I do not feel comfortable with a male dr seeing me if at all possible. And I don’t like that the hospital is farther away.

I called a different obgyn that has an all woman staff and they deliver in the hospital that’s 5 mins away from me.

I have a family history of needing progesterone and my mom had multiple MC , so I brought it up to my current obgyn and I’m supposed to go in for testing next week. She didn’t say if she’ll also do hcg testing at that appt.

Is it an asshole move to switch to this new office after I get the progesterone testing done? Is insurance gonna fuck me if I get the testing done there and get the hcg testing done at the other place?

The new office scheduled me for 2.5 weeks out for an hcg test then I’ll go back at 9/10 weeks for a sonogram.