Looking for a job while pregnant is annoying.

Finally got a job offer after looking for 6 months and might lose it because my due date is December 19th.

I don’t need to hear legal jargon. I know how the law works, FMLA, all of that. But basically they asked me in an interview if I could start training December 1st, which I can. So when I got the offer today, I told them my due date. They couldn’t tell I was pregnant and honestly, no one can. My hairstylist saw me for the first time in 7 months yesterday, and she thought I had already had my kid. I told the person on the phone I’d work with them and do what I could, that I really want this job and don’t want this to be the reason I don’t get it (I’ve been trying to leave teaching for years and this is my chance), but when they asked about my start time, I genuinely just didn’t know how to answer the question.

I really don’t want to go into a lot of detail about it. There’s already a post I made on r/jobs if you want to read it that I posted right before this one. I just hate that I’ve had a job since the age of 16 and right when I finally set myself up to have kids, I can’t work. Beyond feeling like a bad mom, I feel like a bad person and a failure. We only plan on having two kids and this will be my second, but if anything solidifies my decision not have anymore, it’s definitely not being employable.