Feels like I'm saving for nothing

Hi all! i'm a 23 year old software developer. And I'm really frustrated with my current financial status.

I've been working for 2 years and I save a lot, however every time I save up for my emergency funds, something bad happens and I end up giving it all to my family. For example, earlier this year my sister needed operation which led me to give around 80k. Later this year, my uncle got sick, and I have to give around 100k for hospital bills. Most of the time only me and my father shoulder those bills.

I have already saved and spent more than 250k for this year alone, and I didn't even got any emergencies this year.

I'm really frustrated. I don't want to live paycheck to paycheck but I think the universe want me to. Now I know why many poor people become socialists.

Tl;dr: Medical expenses fucked up my savings repeatedly. Will now either find a sugar mommy to escape poverty, or will join the armed revolution to eat the rich.

Edit: thanks for the responses guys. Dami kong natutunan. Also. I don't blame the universe and I'm not a socialist. I just tend to create jokes when I'm frustrated. Sorry.