would you go back to your parent’s house at 27-28 years old for financial reasons ? Even if it means bye bye to freedom and mental health?
I’m looking for some type of validation I guess. Here in Canada/USA etc. We live in a society where it’s not well seen to still live with your parents after a certain age. The thing is: I’ve been living on my own for almost 4 years (3 years, 8 months). it’s not like I never tried independent. I’m trying not to feel behind since I couldn’t complete my second year of uni since I rant out of money and my anxiety wa through the rough. My credit took a hit too. So at this point, it’s financially wiser to go back home, fix my credit and save some money. Rn I have a job but it’s not stable. I barely get to pay my rent and my parents are helping me. They are so sweet but I HATE having them paying for me. They work too hard! I feel very guilthy for being so poor. I’ve applied at as much job as I could. I got denied. And my current job is on call so there’s weeks where I don’t have any shift and used to be full time whenever I wanted to. But things changed. The economy is so bad they cancelled some position. Now its the hunger games and we’re all applying at every position available. I will only know in April if I got any full time position. It’s probably one of the most disappointing time in my life. I love my parents but I hate my hometown. I’d be living with them if they were living in my city. The program I’m studying at isn’t even offered in their city. So no transfer or nothing. I know I might move with them Temporally, but I need to feel good about myself. I feel very weak writting this but I just need support.