Don't lead him/her on if you don't see yourself having a future with him/her

For ladies, by the first date, you will know whether he is the right one for you. if not, don't accept any more gifts from him and tell him openly that it won't work out, if he insists, block him so that its loud and clear

For men, if you don't see yourself having a future with her, just be honest and tell her outright. if she rejects you, don't simp, just be a real man and move on with your life.

If we do this, we will avoid scenarios of broken and wounded hearts. For those whose hearts have been broken, stop with your revenge missions of breaking others hearts. Just take time to heal cos there are still good men and women out there who will love you for who you are.