my girlfriend wanna break up if I don’t cut it

hey guys,

my girlfriend of 7 years really hates my longer hair. My intention was to grow my hair out atleast once before I am 25, like shoulder length.

What do you guys think suits me the most? the first three pics are me right now, after that it goes further back in time. (I’m in the transition frame rn and tried to grow it longer last year too)