Are your shirts way too long?

For the last several years, I've straight up avoided OCBDs and button downs that I can't tuck in, because they're all way, way too long.

For context, I'm a short dude - 5'3'', but even the XXS sold by Under 5'10'' goes far past my crotch area.

Now that it's summer, I'm revisiting my wardrobe and...every single one of my short sleeve button downs, polos, polo sweaters are a few or several inches too long. I don't mind tucking things in, but I'd rather have the ability to go untucked at least a few times. I feel silly and overly formal otherwise.

But, like, what's up with these long-ass shirts? RW&CO polos fit okay around my body and arms, but they're way too long. J Crew slim shirts, same thing.

Does anyone else struggle with this? Where are you getting your untucked size shirts?

Edit: Thanks for the feedback everyone. I should have specified that yes, I do get my shirts hemmed and yes, I do know which shirts are meant to be worn tucked/untucked. I didn't specify that I mean specifically shirts like J Crew's Untucked line...they're still too long!