ONE NIGHT STAND : SOME THINGS TO KNOW ABOUT IT

Are you up for a one-night stand? Or maybe you keep dreaming about one and even know who you’d like to go with? You might be wondering if it’s really worth it, or maybe you just can’t get over your last adventure partner(s). It’s really different to be only looking for one-time sex. Or are we sometimes really looking for intimacy in a one-night stand?

A psychologist I spoke with states that the answers to these questions are individual, and whether it is worth having a one-night stand is only a matter of the person’s own decision, and the most important thing here is that it takes place with mutual consent and safely. We examined what can be hidden behind the desire for a one-night adventure and what you should be prepared for if you don’t want that adventure to later turn into the agony of unrequited love.

WHAT DO YOU THINK PEOPLE ARE LOOKING FOR IN A ONE NIGHT STAND? WHAT NEEDS CAN IT MEET?🔥

Man is a highly social being, living and interacting in social communities of various levels. We all seem to have an innate desire to create interpersonal relationships, be it friendships, romances, work relationships, or perhaps no-strings-attached relationships. Why innate? Because relationships are one of the basic human needs, the lack of which leads to a strange feeling of discomfort or emptiness. The more we lack a relationship, the more we think about it and seek to satisfy this need. Even when it seems like there is no room or time for intimacy in our lives, our bodies still crave closeness. The most common reason for one-night stands is precisely the lack of and desire for this closeness.

WHAT IS IMPORTANT TO CONSIDER BEFORE ENTERING INTO SUCH A RELATIONSHIP?🔥

Before getting into such a relationship, it is important to think about what need we will satisfy in this relationship and what we really want. Will it be only physical closeness related to the act of sex itself, or do we still expect more intimacy and warmth? It is also important to assess whether such relationships conflict with our beliefs and values.

If we are convinced that sex should only be a choice for two people who love each other, stepping into such a relationship will definitely cause us discomfort.

One night stands can cause internal conflict, and sometimes even a feeling of alienation. So security is another aspect that should be paid attention to. And here we are not only talking about safe sex, which is highly encouraged, but also about whether you will feel safe with that person, whether the environment will give you confidence, whether you will be able to relax and really give yourself at that time, so that you can feel pleasure.

WHAT WOULD YOU DISCUSS WITH A POTENTIAL ADVENTURE PARTNER(S)?🔥

All the things that are important to you before a one-night stand are likely to be important to your partner(s). Some maybe less, others more. There’s nothing wrong with asking each other: are we really doing all of this with no strings attached? Do you also think that we’re meeting only to satisfy the needs of our body? As in all life situations, it is important to talk and hear each other out. The details in experiencing this adventure are also important because they ensure safety and the enjoyment that awaits.

Ask each other where you would like to meet, what kind of environment would suit you both, what kind of pleasure or action you expect from each other.

Of course, spontaneity is also one of the most fascinating and appealing parts of a one-night stand, so you can leave as much room for the unknown as you’re comfortable with.

WHAT DO YOU DO IF YOU FIND YOURSELF EMOTIONALLY ATTACHED TO YOUR PARTNER(S)?🔥

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