Nudity in house of dragons

Last night we had a huge fight over nudity on house of dragons when we tried to watch it together. I wanted to skip the scene and he saw that as me being controlling and him missing part of the story. He told me I should trust that it doesn’t affect him and that my feelings of feeling hurt were wrong.

I ended up turning off the Tv and going to take a quick shower, so he finished the scene and paused it after to prove to me that it didn’t affect him, and he only found one woman attractive. Which led to a huge ptsd trigger for me where I started shaking and crying, so he went in the other room. Once I stopped crying we had a really nasty argument before bed about how controlling I am and so on. How game of thrones came before our relationship. How I need to learn how to manage my own feelings and so on.

I feel like I relived the entire trauma of finding out all over me. Everything inside me hurts. How do I move past this? Is it even realistic to think that I could ever be okay with watching nudity on TV with him? Or him alone?