Kissing After X Dates

I am 29M and I don't kiss women until the 3rd or 4th date. This has been surprising to my matches if I tell them. I think it's starting to become a problem because I think women think I'm disinterested in them. A woman liked me, even gave me a rose, and I was ghosted a few days after the first date. I have zero trouble getting dates but apparently me waiting is an issue? My reasoning is I don't want physical touch to get in the way of making informed decisions on if I like these women or not. My love language is touch, too, so i like to hold off as long as possible.

Thoughts?