advice from a 30 year old..
A few life advices that have helped me a lot:
1> Your colleagues are not your friends:
not to bereave yourself from basic human emotions. Be kind and understanding but never ever open up to your colleagues about your private life, work relationships and emotions.
2> Don't drive fast or intoxicated:
man jail aint worth it for any minute of a joyride. The system is made to drain an anti social element. As a middle class person used to a basic level of comfort and hygiene, be scared. One day just let everyone pass by and enjoy your life and breathe.
3> Don't ever street fight:
trust me all the adrenaline and fitness aside, you are not a fighter. One bad swinging punch from an amatuer and you can die of internal bleeding. Worst you have a real bad day and the person pulls out a gun or a knife. Worst still you hit and he hits his head and die.
4> Judiciary, healthcare and Police are value draining industries:
Just don't do things that will make you interact with them.
5> Eat less, Sleep more and always move
6> Don't cheat on you loved ones:
Just masturbate, its ok to be sexually aroused. Not worth it to fuck up your life.
7> Pray:
all big and famous personalities are huge devotees. Maybe just try for wealth or a wish. Try!
8> understand what personality type you are before fiddling with drugs:
Understand yourself before trying anything, while I am huge proponent of trying everything once. It’s easier for some people to get addicted because of how their brain is programmed.
9> Confidence:
Not everyone has had the same life, our present is a projection of our past and emotions. What has helped me is to start not taking myself seriously. The world is a stage, be amused, laugh a little on the absurdness. Dress smartly, go to gym.
Like you everyone else is always thinking of what you think of them and their image. Nobody maybe except your loved ones think about you or your looks or your embarrassing moment.
Walk straight with your chest out, shoulders relaxed and breathe with your nose
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