Is Gurgaon really that wild? Tips for Mumbaikar moving to Gurgaon

I (27 M) will be moving to Gurgaon in Feb'25 for job and every friend of NCR has said the same thing "Thoda Shant... Kisi ko kuch bolne/Bhid mat jaiyo... Local log se bachke!"

PS: I've never been out of Mumbai. And like a typical mumbaikar, I avoid confrontation and kinda chill.

I thought these were just stereotypes, but literally everyone has said the same thing! What's the deal Gurgaon people!

Also, what tips you'll give a brother on adjusting to the city. Would love to know more on the crowd, commuting, socialising, dating scene, good places to rent/stay at, etc!