Does anyone actually enjoy when cis dudes refer to your body as pussy/tits/clit?
Like okay, ik trans men aren’t a monolith so im sure there are definitely some dudes who dont mind that terminology used for their body but personally i hate it. Grindr is natrually a hellscape majority of the time but like for example this dude earlier was like “has testosterone given you a big clit yet?” and I was immediately so turned off. It personally feels like either a. They watch way too much trans men porn or b. They view me as a girl whenever they talk to me like that. Like I don't mind anatomical terms being used when needed (like if we're discussing whether I wanna do vaginal penetration or anal) but any other time it puts me off. I already have a pretty feminine body I don't wanna be reminded they are thinking they're fucking a girl yk?
But whenever I talk to my cis gay friends they don't rlly get it since feminization of bottoms isn't uncommon like they're like “I refer to all the guys I'm with’s chest as tits” and like okay some of these dudes do genuinely do this regardless if the guy their with is cis or trsns but also I'm like, know your crowd??? Idk. Im just curious, do you have similar feelings to me or do you personally not mind it when men use anatomical terms for you?
I wish I could just get laid and not have to worry about whether I'm being fucked as a man or woman