Sad truth about those with Trump spouses/relatives/friends... they don't care what happens to you, but won't admit it to your face

I've just read through the comments on the Family and friends think I’m overreacting post and was shocked and upset by the number of people whose spouses/relatives/friends made excuses -- particularly of the 'it won't happen to you' variety.

What shocked and upset me was not their excuses, but that the commenters accepted their statements at face value, when it's clear to me as a non-fed who is looking at it from the outside...

They don't care what happens to you as long as it's Trump doing it, but won't admit it to your face.

I know you're all dealing (rightly) with the temendous shock at what has happened career-wise, but it's better to admit the whole truth as you make your plans for the future.