Books where FMC teaches MMC what she likes during sex

I'm so bored of sex scenes where MMC takes the lead and just automatically knows what FMC will like without any kind of communication. And she's just there passively enjoying it, or occasionally volunteering a blowjob.

I want the MMC to be experienced enough to know that different women like different things, and confident enough to listen to feeedback

I want FMC to know what she likes and be willing to communicate it clearly.

I want books where the FMC guides, shows, or tells MMC what she enjoys, and MMC listens and asks questions and tries things out - and not just once, but active communication throughout.

I'm NOT looking for inexperienced MMC's, or femdom. Just really good 2-way communication about sex