Books like T. Kingfisher?

So I'm just starting to dabble in romantasy, and so far I've enjoyed Swordheart, Clocktaur War and Paladin's Grace. I like a cozy romantasy and T. Kingfisher's sense of humor is sublime, though I have found that there's a lot of repetitiveness throughout the books as far as archetypes, characters feeling like they're not good enough for each other, etc. I'm looking for some similar books, preferably a series as I like to spend some time in the world. My favorite parts of Kingfisher's books were:

• Humor
• Older MC's and FMC's
• No first person POV
• Realistic spice (not this crazy bed-breaking stuff, ahem, The Fourth Wing) but sweet and romantic
• Not overly descriptive or too much into the lore (too much history or weird names can get confusing unless they're really good at describing it)

I also don't understand the whole faerie thing, but I'm open to it if there's some good books out there. The romance being secondary is fine, and I don't need a ton of spice. (Trying to get through The Fourth Wing currently and I'm struggling very much, so that is not my jam.)

Any suggestions? :)