I really hate being fetishized by some non-Muslim men/

I remembered some non-Muslim men telling me that they love hijab and that they like how Muslim women are "traditional" and "submissive." I even had someone tell me that he wants to convert to Islam because Western women are not traditional enough and are "too independent." Because I came from a Muslim background, he assumed that I am going to be submissive and traditional or whatever that means. I married my non- Muslim husband who went through conversion process for me just for love and those guys were like he did the right thing because Western women are not "traditional."