Update to my original post "NeverMo here, my mom has converted to Islam and my new stepdad is a control freak. Not sure what to do?" for anyone interested

Hi there, sorry for being away for a few days, but I couldn't respond to comments or post anything because Reddit temporarily suspended me for "racist content" which I have no idea what that's referring to, because I've never posted racist content on Reddit. I suspect it was Muslims flagging my account but can't prove this, so whatever.

As for my situation, there's been a few updates. First, of all the suggestions I was given on my initial thread, I am highly considering moving to Germany where my brother is with my boyfriend, for a lot of reasons. Not only because my brother happens to be stationed there, but apparently it's actually easier to live there than it is on your own in the US, so I might as well take advantage of this and it's also far far far away from my mom and stepdad. If this doesn't work out, then I will be at least moving out of state and figure something out.

My stepdad approached me two days ago and basically wanted to make peace with me, said he wants to be a father figure to me and that I need "guidance", whatever that means, and that he really wants me to go to Pakistan with the family because it will "shed some light on things", again whatever the hell that means. So yes he is intent on me going to Pakistan with him. My mom is also intent on this and even asked me that same day if I was interested in Arabic and going to a mosque to watch new Muslims take the Shahadah, I said no thank you, I've never stepped foot in a mosque before and because of what I've read on this subreddit and my initial thread, I don't know if i'm even safe in one so being on the safe side and avoiding one. They also want me to meet with my stepdads family living here in Arizona in a few days, in this big family get together, not sure if that's something I should attend? I wonder if there's any danger in this? My stepdad said "I want you to meet your step cousins and step uncle and aunt" and seemed strangely insistant on this. Make of that what you will.

I've talked to my boyfriend and his family all about this, and they've said if anything is attempted along the lines people have described here (forced marriage, kidnapping, etc), they will take me in, but it's a sticky legal situation and I really don't want to get them in trouble, but at least I know I have an immediate escape route.

Basically, my mom has joined a cult and now they're intent on sucking me in. So I'm probably screwed.