A

There has been (in my opinion) a lot of tearing into A lately. I get he's been treating his now ex girlfriend abhorrently. I get he's frustrating and comes across as not very nice a person, but just because he is no longer a minor, is he now fair game?

No he's not. I've seen some disgusting comments regarding him, that go beyond snark, into actual bullying. He is a product of his environment. Yes he could work to better his behaviour etc. But it's hard to see that because he's been conditioned by his abusive mother to think his behaviour is acceptable.

I really feel bullying him for his weight, his looks etc is SO WRONG. His actions let him down absolutely, and in all fairness, I understand a discussion around that but some of you all, are just plain taking it too far.