Reasonable request or gold digger?

So I (43m) was just told last night (33f) that I was not meeting her needs after only a month after meeting. She said her love language is gifts and acts of service and that even though she's had a busy schedule and she didn't really have a lot of time that I didn't try hard enough to see her or didn't spoil her with things like paying for her nails or bringing her coffee or food. She said other guys drove an hour to bring her dinner, get a hug and turn around and leave. Did I dodge a bullet or is this stuff that woman expect from men?