Do any other dads feel unappreciated?

I feel like I do so much around the house. I'm up at 5:45 on weekdays making everybody breakfast, I'm doing laundry and washing dishes and trying desperately to clean up (though I'm mostly the clutter king) and my wife wakes up at 6:45, I take the baby, she gets in the shower, and comes out to breakfast ready lunches packed and our preschooler in some state between ready to go and leave me alone. I'm not looking for a thank you, but all I ever seem to get is "why didn't you do x & y & z?"