Dealing with guys trying to give advice

I haven’t been climbing very long, but last time I went there were a bunch of guys that were trying to give me advice on stuff and honestly it wasn’t a very nice experience. I don’t mind people approaching me with potential suggestions especially because I’m just starting out, but sometimes they hardly listen to me at all. I’m the type of person who prefers to have a rubber ducky, someone to help me figure it out by helping me process my thoughts about a problem. Not by throwing solutions in my face.

The other day there were like three different guys who were all just throwing different solutions at me and it got super overwhelming and annoying.

And once there was a guy who just kept parroting the same advice to me even though I was trying to hardest to try it and still failing.

Do y’all have issues like this too? How do you deal with it? I really dont want this to be what drives me away from climbing because I really like it.