Does anyone else find BC kinda.. mean?

Came here from Toronto area over a year ago and definitely romanticized BC a bit thinking it would be super chill west coast vibes with down to earth, nature loving people who do yoga. But it's just incredibly un-chill and yoga is really expensive here haha.

A lot of people here just seem to be super unnecessarily hostile. Like the Landlords who want 2000+ for a 1 bedroom or like $5000 for a regular house then literally tell you to "fuck off" or "give your head a shake" for daring to ask if it's dog friendly.

When we had that snow storm my street didn't see a plow for 2 weeks. Anyone who complained or even mentioned it on Facebook would get berated but like wtf guys this actually is a problem, snow removal in Canada is like a basic right and we absolutely should band together and complain if it's not getting done not turn on the little old lady asking about it because she's trapped in her home lol.

When I first moved here I stayed in a hostel until I found my own place and there was no parking available anywhere and i got a ticket daily for like a month and a half. I even went to city hall and asked what i should do and she said she can't give me a parking pass until I change my address over, can't change my address over until I have a permanent address, and the best she can do is set me up on a payment plan so i can just continually pay off tickets as i get them lol. like damn, seems like BC just truly has this "don't like it, gtfo" attitude i just haven't seen anywhere else.

Petty theft, homelessness, open drug use are everywhere and people are mad at them when it's really not hard to see why these problems exist. Most of the people I know here are barely getting by and are 1 paycheck away from being homeless themselves. And there are great people who have great jobs, great budgets, and great references but they are literally homeless because they have a pet!

I never thought of Toronto as being chill or having a particularly strong sense of community or overly nice people but Toronto seems way nicer, chiller, and more liveable (or survivable) than BC. Feels like people look out for each more in Toronto whereas here everyone is against each other and on the offense.

Does anyone else get this vibe or am I totally misguided? Are there chill parts of BC I'm missing out on? I've spent most of my time in the Okanagan but did check out Vancouver, Squamish area, Victoria and Tofino.